Your kids remember
everything. So does Switchday.

The shared calendar both parents actually agree on. Messaging that can't be disputed. Every expense, handoff, and calendar event documented — automatically. Built for the good days, and protected for the hard ones.

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Good morning, Alex
Monday, May 12
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Tue, May 14 · 3:00 PM
Riverside Elementary
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Switchday is a co-parenting platform for separated and divorced parents. It handles the custody calendar, shared messaging, expense tracking, and document storage that make day-to-day co-parenting work. And because every record is cryptographically signed and independently timestamped from the moment it's created, it's also a legal record when you need it to be.

Everything in one place

Not just a calendar. Not just messaging. Switchday covers the full scope of co-parenting coordination — and backs every record with proof that holds up.

Shared custody calendar
Both parents see the same schedule. Switch times, handoff locations, and overrides — agreed on and documented.
Co-parent messaging
Tamper-proof messaging — both parents see the same conversation, permanently. No edits, no rewrites.
Expense tracking
Log shared costs, request approval, keep a timestamped record. No more 'who paid for what.'
Document vault
Upload medical records, school documents, and court orders. Every file hashed at upload.
Private journal
Your personal record, visible only to you. Document what matters, privately.
Child portal
Kids see their own schedule and can send messages to each parent. No shared login needed.
Attorney & mediator portal
Share read-only access to your records with your legal team. No login or account required on their end.
Records PDF export
Every message, expense, and event exportable as a formatted PDF with a full SHA-256 integrity manifest.
Evidence bundle
Select a date range and record types. Export a formal PDF with cover page, table of contents, and integrity manifest.
SMS relay
Send and receive messages as texts without sharing your phone number. Works from any phone.
AI tone coach
Reads your message before you send and flags anything that could make a hard day harder. Fewer misunderstandings.
Google Calendar sync
Your custody calendar synced to Google Calendar automatically. Stays current without any manual work.
iCal / calendar feed
Subscribe in Apple Calendar, Outlook, Skylight, or any iCal-compatible app. Always up to date.
Schedule import
Import your existing schedule from OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents. No re-entry needed.
SHA-256 + RFC 3161 signed
Every record cryptographically timestamped by DigiCert
Court-format PDF export
Formatted for attorney and mediator review, with full integrity manifest
AI tone coach
Flags escalating language before you send
Child portal included free
Kids see their own schedule and message each parent

Text is evidence.
Calls are conversations.

Other apps record your calls. We don't — because calls disappear. What holds up in mediation or a legal proceeding is the written record. Switchday preserves exactly that: every message, expense, and calendar change, signed and timestamped the moment it happens.

Written record — not call logsSHA-256 signed, not he-said/she-saidCourt-format PDF, not a screenshot

What you said stays what you said.

Disputed messages are one of the biggest sources of co-parenting conflict. Text is evidence — and Switchday treats it that way. Every message is cryptographically signed the moment it's sent. Both parents see the same conversation, permanently. No edits, no rewrites, no 'that's not what I said.' The AI tone coach reads what you've written before it goes, and flags anything that could make a hard day harder.

Co-Parent · Alex & Sam Rivera
Tone: Calm
SR
Can we adjust pickup Tuesday to 4pm instead of 3?
2:14 PM· a3f7…c12e
AR
Yes, that works for me. I'll update the calendar.
2:18 PM· a3f7…c12e
SR
Thanks 👍
2:19 PM· a3f7…c12e
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Your kids always know where they're going.

Not 'where are we going this weekend?' Not a screenshot of a text chain. One shared calendar — custody days, switch requests, handoff times — that both parents agree on. When your kids ask, you both already know the answer.

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No more 'who paid for what'.

Soccer camp, school supplies, dentist visits — shared costs are a constant source of friction. Every expense in Switchday is logged, timestamped, and waiting for approval. Clear records on both sides. No arguing about who owes what.

Shared Expenses
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Soccer Camp
May 1 · Added by Alex
$350.00
Paid
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School Supplies
May 8 · Added by Sam
$87.50
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Dentist Visit
May 3 · Added by Alex
$125.00
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All amounts SHA-256 hashed at creation

We hope you never
need this part.

We built Switchday so co-parenting works smoothly, day to day. But if things get contentious — a dispute, a mediator, a court date — everything is ready. Every message, expense, and calendar event is cryptographically signed and independently timestamped the moment it's created. One click exports your full record as a formatted PDF.

SHA-256 hashingRFC 3161 timestampsSigned audit logCourt-format PDF exportVault document storageAttorney access portal
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Alex & Sam Rivera
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How Switchday protects your records

Your data is encrypted in transit and at rest. Messages and records are access-controlled at the database level — only you and your co-parent can read them. Unlike most co-parenting apps, Switchday maintains a tamper-evident audit log of every record change — making any tampering immediately detectable.

The integrity system is built on open, auditable standards — not proprietary claims.

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You create a record
Send a message, log an expense, add a calendar event. The moment you do, Switchday creates a SHA-256 hash — a unique digital fingerprint of exactly what was recorded, at that exact moment.
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It's independently timestamped
That fingerprint is sent to DigiCert — a trusted third-party certificate authority — which issues an RFC 3161 timestamp token. This is an open standard used in legal, financial, and government systems. It proves the record existed at a specific moment and wasn't created or altered afterward.
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The record is yours to use
Every record, its hash, and its RFC 3161 timestamp are stored and verifiable. Your attorney, mediator, or anyone you authorize can inspect them. One click exports everything as a formatted PDF with a full integrity manifest.

Each record is SHA-256 hashed at creation and independently timestamped via RFC 3161. Whether this is sufficient for your jurisdiction's evidentiary requirements depends on the court, the judge, and how it's presented. If you're using Switchday records in legal proceedings, discuss admissibility with your attorney. See our FAQ for more detail on the technical architecture.

Your kids deserve both of you showing up.

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Unlimited messaging
Custody calendar
Switch requests & overrides
30-day message history
Child portal — kids see their own schedule
Read-only family access
iCal feed (Apple, Outlook, Skylight)
Import from OFW / TalkingParents

Message history is preserved — upgrade to Family Pro anytime to restore full access.

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Unlimited message history
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